What is the problem of changing your pattern? We all have followed some kind of patterns. Some of us have a morning to evening pattern, you know woke up at 6:00 a.m, wash our face, eat something for the breakfast, put some cloth on and run for work, meet our friends after work, and so on. If that pattern breaks for one day we feel like we miss something in life.
I am a kind of person who never wanted to break her patterns. In regards of r/ship, if I fight with a person and knows am right I will never get back to them to apologize. Cause they are the one who made the mistake. One time I met a man who is very polite even if he is not the one who did wrong, he came and apologies. One day I told him he so beggar! Surprisingly he knows perfectly that he has this kind of attitude. He assures me that he has benefited from it. He was a good business man who know how to handle his customer. The same is true for his friends. I asked whether he cares about his pride. He said f*** pride! It amazes me because he is the 1st Ethiopian I know and who love Ethiopia very much but never had the one thing most of us shares. One thing about me, I am the most proud woman who love to learn from anywhere the benefits her life.
So, I learnt this and change my pattern of waiting for people until they apologize me. I have done it one time and it works perfect. Now am going to break it for the second time, writing for the man I love though I know he is wrong about me.
Sweat day!
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